Astral Advice Sep 20

How do People With the Same Birthday Get Along?

Dear Ann,

I am in the VERY beginning stages of a possible relationship with a woman who shares my same birthday two years and one day after. The 24th being the 24hrs that was added to February during a leap year. We think SO much alike it's surreal. After reading the previous answers to questions, my question is how does having the SAME birthday have a baring on relationships/personalities? And, because she is younger with less life experience, should I expect her to grow into being able to use the 'gifts' that I see her not utilizing?

by TheophilismPisces

Dear Theophilism,

Definitely, having the same birthday will give you and your companion a lot of things in common. However, even twins who were born a few minutes apart will have striking personality differences, so I would encourage you to view your new friend as having very different strengths and weaknesses from you. This will help you to develop a healthy amount of compassion for her current stage of development. With your moon in Virgo, it is easy for you to see all the little imperfections, but your sun in Pisces has great capacity for empathy. And yes, I definitely think that younger people with less life experience often do not have same confidence as as people with many more years of life experience, so that is something you may have to always keep in mind as you progress in the relationship.